pagan ceremonialist & handfaster
ceremony is a spell.
Welcome to the Hive!
The Warm Ups
HMNI | Who We Are
HMNI stands for Hello, my name is! This is the first chat we will share and during this chat we will get to know you, your partner and your relationship. We will discuss topics ranging from your favorite adventures to how you work through challenges together. Below are 8 of my 16 questions for you to discuss together to get "warmed up" for this chat.
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How did you meet? What was your first impression of each other?
What's your favorite food memory (fav take out spot, dish you make together, go to late night hang out).
Do you have a comfort show or movie you love to watch together again and again?
Tell me about your favorite adventure together.
Who popped the question? Tell me the proposal story!
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Describe your fiancé to me as if you were writing the back cover of a book about them.
What’s something uniquely quirky about you two?
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What are three words you would use to describe your relationship?
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What is something you have learned about yourself through your relationship?
What is a challenge you overcame together?
What is something you would like to learn from your partner?
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What Is Love | Lil Deets
In the What Is Love chat we discuss two very different topics: how we want your ceremony to sound, flow and feel, and all of the little fun bits of your relationship. This is the second chat we will share and during this chat we will get to know ceremony structure, vernacular, traditional and nontraditional options. Then we will bounce back to discuss your love story a little more, this time, in the tiny moments and inside jokes, nicknames and favorite shows. Below are 12 of my 25 questions for you to discuss together to get "warmed up" for this chat.
Tell me about the ceremony site. Is there an Aisle? Are we hiking?
How should I address your guests?
Do you want an opening meditation/prayer? How about an unplugged ceremony?
Are we including any rituals (candle/chord/cup)?
Is family a central part of your ceremony?
Lots of laughter or a little more serene?
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Are you writing vows?
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What's something your partner does that drives you nuts?
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What’s something strange or goofy your partner does that you secretly admire?
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What is your favorite shared hobby?
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Whats your partner's best attribute?
If you had to talk for an hour straight about one thing in order to win a million dollars, what would you talk about?